changes...

for the past few days, i have been thinking of the changes that occur in people as humans..as a human being grows up, changes can be seen...we change physically, mentally and spiritually...we become mature, able to think logically, and our attitudes changes as well...sometimes we feel that we want to return to the time we were little kids but it's just the reality and we have to face it...everybody's getting older by the ticking of the clock...why do people change?i myself am aware of the changes that occur in my life...i can change to the immature side of me at times when i feel like it...my attitude changes whenever im not satisfied or unhappy with what's going on around me...and one particular thing, throughout my teenage years, i have been wondering why do girls change because of guys?i've seen these in my highschool years, how they desperately want to get their attention...sometimes they don't realise by the way they talk, that they're actually flirting with guys...i just can't stand it!when i was in a relationship, i have to admit that in one way or the other, i changed in some ways..it's amazing that when you're being loved by someone, you change...i think that's what people often call it - the power of love...but that is, if you're with someone who truly cares for you and loves you, not just someone who wants to take advantage of you...i also notice that changes occur as a result of mistakes...when we did a mistake, we tend to change...we tend to avoid from that mistake to be repeated...sometimes we succeed in this, but there are times where we fail to realise that we are making the same mistake...humans tend to change occasionally...some change drastically and some change gradually...but every humans go through a change in his or her life...we just have to make sure that the change that occurs in oneself doesn't destroy the relationships and friendship with others...choose wisely and don't choose a guy just because of his looks and outside appearances or because of wanting to be superior on finding a handsome young man...you might not know that he's just pretending and taking advantage on you, guys can be complicated and difficult to understand just like girls...don't be deceived, one day you will regret what you did...please realize this and prevent it earlier rather than being hurt in the future!

well...i shall put more thoughts on this as i observe the changes that occurs in myself and in my circle of friends...